Dear Cerebral Palsy: I Both Love & Hate You.

Just the other day, I came across a blog written by a young lady who also has Cerebral Palsy. In one of her enteries, she wrote a letter to her Cerebral Palsy. I must admit that at first I thought it was a little strange, but after reading it, I realized that I could completely indentify with her inward feelings. This week, I have decided to write a letter to my Cerebral Palsy.

Dear Cerebral Palsy,

You and I have a complicated relationship. Throughout my life, there has been countless times where I have wished that you would go away and never bother to return and, other times I hardly notice its even there. Other times, you are all I can think about especially when my body is not cooperating the way I hoped it would. Because of you, some people don't view me as being the same as everyone else.

However, there is also many reasons why I love you. Sometimes, I wonder what my life would be like if I did not have to deal with you. I wonder if I would have learned the same valuable lessons without you. It is because of you that I have learned the value behind patience. If it wasn't for you, I most certainly would not be where I am today. I would not have been blessed with the opportunity to meet so many amazing people. Because of you, I have been forced to think outside of the box and, as a result I have been able to accomplish the goals I have set for myself in the past, while also making many of my dreams a reality. You have taught me that there is absolutely no value in giving up, even if I do not feel as though I have the strength to keep moving forward when life proves to be difficult. Thank you very much for teaching me that it is the smallest things in life that matter the most. Thank you for teaching me that there is no shame in being unique. I would not be the strong young woman that I am without you. For that, I am very grateful!

Sincerley,

Becca

Even though some days can be difficult, I refuse to be a victim of Cerebral Palsy. I think one of the most important lessons I have learned is that the only way to enjoy life is to live it to the fullest. I have had the opportunity to create some amazing memories throughout my life. This past weekend, I went to Watereton with my sister and a friend of ours. This was a very special day for me ,because my disability was not the focus. My sister, Stephanie and our friend, Iris made sure that I was involved in every aspect of the day.