Everything Happens for a Reason

One of the hardest things about having Cerebral Palsy is knowing that it doesn't just affect me. It affects everyone around me.

Throughout my life, I have encountered many individuals who have said: " I cannot imagine what it is like to be you." While some days prove to be more challenging than others, I am not struggling. I have found an immense amount of comfort in knowing that everything , even it makes absolutely no sense in the moment, happens for a reason.

Life should not be spent dwelling on what we cannot do. I have learned that life is about making the best of what I have been given, even if I have not always agreed with my personal circumstances. If we choose to focus soley on the negative aspects of our lives, the chances that you will miss out on some amazing opportunities are even greater. Nothing is impossible. The mind is far more powerful than the body. You can achieve anything if you set your mind to it. For myself, this often means that in order to participate in activities, I must adapt to my surroundings. Life does not come with an instruction manual, so I have figured out my own personalized way of doing almost everything.

Despite my physical challenges, I am extremely active. Yesterday was no exception. The children I work with at the after school care program decided to play soccer at the park. I transferred out of my wheelchair onto the grass ,and I began chasing the soccer ball on my hands and knees, using my hand to move the ball forward. Before long, the children were all scooting around on their hands and knees, trying desperately to get the ball. It was so much fun!

Sometimes, it can be difficult to see the good our lives. There was a time in my life where I thought there was no good reason I was born with Cerebral Palsy. However, I have learned that no matter what we are going through, things will always turn out for the better. Even now, I do not understand the reasoning behind my challenges. However, Cerebral Palsy is not a reason for me to not enjoy life.