Defying the Stigma: The Power of Laughter
- Becca Neels
- Oct 19, 2015
- 2 min read
One of my favorite quotes is: “It is not about what has happened to you. It is about what you make of it. That’s what really matters!”
I realize that I have some physical limitations, but I truly believe that the best way to live my life is as if my challenges are non- existent. Some of the best and most memorable moments in my life have been when I managed to prove others wrong by accomplishing something that I was told I would never achieve. Throughout my life, I have been constantly underestimated because of my disability. I suppose that being underestimated actually turned out to be a good thing, because it ignited and fueled a fire deep inside of my body that cannot be extinguished. The stigma that many people have developed about individuals with different- abilities has in turn become my motivation. I have learned that the only way my abilities can be compromised is if I choose to be a victim of my challenges. I am a very determined person with a go getter personality, and a sense of adventure. I have been described by my friends and family as the kid who tries everything.
My whole life I have moved at a slower pace than everyone else, which has taught me to appreciate the small things. Even though somedays prove to be more challenging than others especially when I am in pain, laughter has become my weapon. The ability to laugh at what is happening to you makes life so much easier. I know that I can count on my family and friends to help put a smile on my face when I need it most. My family and friends, combined with my notoriously sick sense of humor have helped me defy the stigma.
I know that with the love of those around me and the power of laughter, I can conquer any challenge that comes my way.
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