Have a Little Faith

Everything worth having in life requires hard work. A lot of hard work, but I am determined to accomplish my goals and dreams no matter what it takes to make them a reality. Looking back on my life thus far, I have accomplished so many things that I was told I would never be able to do. Growing up, I faced a multitude of stereotypes and stigmas because of my physical challenges and still do. I have cried many tears, yelled in frustration and, there were also times where I wished that I am able to alter my reality. I have learned that it is completely okay to be angry and frustrated. Allowing yourself to be upset can be a huge release, because it can help us to let go of the negative emotions that we may have been carrying on our shoulders. It can give us the strength we need to get back up and fight again. Even though I have faced many stigmas and stereotypes, I have managed make many of my dreams a reality, but I didn’t do it to prove people wrong. I did it to prove to myself that no matter what life throws at me, I can make through absolutely anything.

I am about to begin an entirely new chapter in my life, one that scares the hell out of me, but at the same time, it is something that I am beyond excited about. Next month, I will be moving into a wheelchair accessible home with two roommates, who I am privileged to call my friends. This amazing opportunity will open up doors that offer a sense of freedom and independence that I have never felt before. While I know my family and friends will be there to offer support and encouragement, it is a comforting feeling to know that I won’t have to rely on them for everything anymore… sorry Mom and Dad. Lol!

Aside from the freedom and independence that moving into my own house will gift me with, I am wholeheartedly looking forward to the new opportunities that will come along with it. The other night, I had a dream that I established a non- profit organization for children with all abilities to play sports collaboratively. My own journey has inspired me to be a strong advocate and a voice for people, especially those with disabilities, like myself. Empathy is what has fueled the desire deep inside of my heart to initiate and create change. I realize that there going to be people who are judgmental, but I want to do everything in my power to ensure that other young people do not have to face the stereotypes that I have.

No one has ever said that life is supposed to be easy, but in that I know that no matter what happens I will be okay!