I Don't Need Your Pity!

In order to love who you are, you cannot hate the experiences that shaped you

– Amanda Dykstra.

In my previous blog post, I wrote about how there has always been a small part of me that has felt as though the spirit within me does not match my circumstances. Although I am not ashamed of the fact that I have Cerebral Palsy, I have often wondered who I would be without it. This is probably going to sound stupid but I often wonder, if I didn’t have it, would I appreciate life as much as I do today? I have met people who feel sorry for me, simply because I have a disability.

Here is what I would like to say to the people to the who feel this way:

There is no need to feel sorry for me because I have found the joy in my life.

I am happy because I have struggled.

I am happy because I know that despite everything I have been through and will encounter in the future , there is always going to be a light at the end of the tunnel. Things always have a way of turning themselves around.

Don’t feel sorry for me because I have to rely on the help of those around me to complete certain activities. Having Cerebral Palsy has made me fiercely determined, stubborn and independent.

I am happy because my experiences have given me the ability to laugh at myself.

I am happy because it inspired me to try new things, create new memories and to live my life with no regrets.

I am happy because my experiences have allowed me to speak up and be an advocate for individuals who are going through similar challenges.

And, I am happy because I know and have witnessed the value of love. Looking back, I know that I would not have made it this far had it not been for the constant support, love and encouragement from my amazing family, friends and colleagues.

So you see, I am pretty lucky!